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We'd like to be upfront an address those who disapprove of other people using sex and/or marijuana to enhance their personal pleasure.  

We can certainly understand your interest where public safety is concerned.   We share that same concern, however the private behavior of consenting adults is a very different matter.   The laws regarding public behavior are obviously necessary and appropriate, however when one attempts to apply the laws of public behavior to the private behavior of consenting adults, the result is nothing less than fascist tyranny.  

Your disapproval is not, in and of itself, reason to use government laws, to make others live their lives according to your wishes.   Laws give license to those with guns and tear gas to use violence or threat of violence against those who violate the letter of the law.   This right is essential where public safety is concerned, but totally out of place when used against consenting adults in private.   We'll address the psychology of the would-be do-gooders elsewhere, but for now we'll simply remind you of the Universal Law of Allowing.   We've included it below along with a quote from Abraham Lincoln.     

The Universal Law of Allowing:  

The essence of freedom, as intended by our nation's Founding Father, is in perfect alignment with The Universal Law of Allowing:   Practicing The Universal Law of Allowing requires accepting others as they are and granting to them the same rights you ask for yourself -- the right to be, do, have, express, and experience whatever you choose providing that one's actions are not violating others.   Here's one interpretation of that law:

I am that I am and You are that which You are.   I accept, honor, and respect you as you are.   I honor, allow, support, and respect your right to be who you are, do as you do, and have whatever you have.   I honor your right to live your life as you choose, to worship God, or not, as you choose.   I honor those same rights in me and call for you to do likewise.

I honor the Golden Rule, “Do onto others as you would have them do onto you."   (or "Do onto others as they would be done onto.")   and call for you to do likewise.   

As long as you avoid violating others, violating the rights of others or destroying our collective environment, I will honor your right to be, do, have, express, and experience whatever you choose.

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Here’s another way of expressing this law:

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Love Yourself, love Your Neighbor, and love God with equal intensity, for all three are one and the same thing. 

Here's a quote from one of the greatest presidents in all of American history:  

The bottom line is, as consulting adults, acting in private, we do not seek your approval, and we do not need your permission.    

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